She had AA cup breasts until she got implants. Now, she wonders if her daughter should get surgery before she goes to college.

Dear Prudence: My daughter has inherited her breast size from me.

Emily Yoffe: It's a waste of emotional energy to focus on such a superficial thing; doing something about it made your life better.

Your daughter should experience pleasure with her unadulterated breasts before even thinking whether to alter them.

Dear Prudence : Don't treat your mother's new boyfriend as just that: your mother’s new boyfriend, not some grifter with a Cocoon fixation.

Don’t say anything aside from his age or appearance that suggests he is taking advantage of her.