How to do it: I’d like to have sex without the urine, but my partner is being selfish. What’s a good way to suggest a compromise?

Husband "Travis" wants to have sex in bed after pissing on him, but I only do it to make him happy.

"It 's Not Golden for Me " is not a requirement, but you are experiencing the benefits: Travis is happy, and the ensuing sex is amazing.

You have him hooked on your pee—that's power.

After the last time we had sex, he broke down and said that sometimes it feels like I don't want him.

He likes it when I eat him out and use toys on him, but it never feels concentrated or spontaneous to him.

Orgasm is often difficult for him with me because penetration is a no-go for him at the moment.

I deeply want to rectify the situation.

Dear How to Do It: Don’t go into it hellbent on his achieving orgasm, just do what has worked in the past or what seems right in the moment.

Any relationship that takes place in your early 20s is indeed a “break up and find a more compatible sexual partner”.